Last night my daughter Trinity, 4, asked me if I would play dolls with her. When I told her yes, she started dancing around saying yippee! She was running around the house so excited.
I was a little surprised that what seemed simple to me meant the world to her. This also started me thinking of the things that excited me when I was a kid. The simplest things like going to Chuck-E-Cheese would send me into a spasm of craziness from all the excitement I felt.
I still remember those exciting moments as clearly today as when they happened. I realized last night that as simple as it seemed for me to play Tinkerbell & friends with her, she will probably be sharing this experience when she’s in her 50s. It’s a great feeling to know I have the ability to deposit those feelings into her life. I am in control as a father to project those deep and lasting joyful moments into my kids' lives. What a privilege and awesome responsibility this becomes!
I think as parents, it is so important for us to stop with our busyness, and play with our kids. Regrets will always visit us later in life--our goal as parents should be to limit the frequency of their visits. Having meaningful play time with our kids is a great way to minimize these regrets.
I look forward to seeing the smile on Trinity’s face and the joyful dance & song when I ask her today if she wants to play dolls with daddy.
My life is brighter now because my little girls’ heart sang to me.
Nathan Anderson
2:45 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Awesome! Well said and I think it is an important message for all parents.
Tom Sheltraw
4:36 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Thanks Nathan. Congratulations on your new little blessing; You will have many years of joy!