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Question: I work from home, and during the school year, it's manageable, but with the kids home for the summer, I fear I might lose my mind. The kids don't seem to understand that I have a "real job" and I'm afraid I'm not being very productive. Help!

Answer: Ahh, those "work from home" ads on TV and in the magazines make working from home seem so glamorous, but those of us who actually do know how difficult it can be to balance both mommy time and work time. Is your boss aware that your kids are home for the summer? Some bosses make it possible to have more flexible hours when the kids are home. If "office hours" are the same, try taking breaks throughout the day to do something special with the kids. Set a timer and say "At noon, we're going to bake cookies. Or watch our favorite sitcom we DVR'd together."  For younger kids, a plastic box full of special toys can come in handy while Mommy needs to make important phone calls. And if all else fails, do what I do and hide in the closet until little hands come knocking.

Diane kampner July 6, 2011 at 02:29 pm
Another solution for the summer months would be to lease a small office at an Executive suite such as Encore Offices in Aliso Viejo and utilize Encores "Kids Suite" where your children have access to movies, tv, and games while you spend uninterrupted hours at work in your office.
Stephanie Nivinskus July 7, 2011 at 02:10 am
I hire a sitter two days a week for 4 hours each day. I get 8 hours of uninterrupted work time and I morph into a productivity machine. Knowing that I only have 8 hours to get everything done forces me to be uber organized. It's actually pretty awesome when you see how much you can really get done when every other distraction is off. As for really working when the kids are home from school and doing so without help...well, I honestly don't think it's possible to do that if your kids are little (like mine). I mean, I suppose I could sit them in front of the tv but I think that's a terrible option. We've made our 8 hours a week special time with their favorite sitter. She comes over and makes their time super fun. They look forward to it. And I love it. And the rest of the week I am mommy extraordinaire. Or so I like to think, anyhow! ;)
Karen Koczwara July 7, 2011 at 02:17 am
Great ideas, Stephanie and Diane!
priscilla July 8, 2011 at 03:43 pm
how can i work from home without it being a scam....please im tired of people lying to me i just want a solid honest truth
priscilla July 8, 2011 at 03:44 pm
how can i work from home without it being a scam....please im tired of people lying to me i just want a solid honest truth
priscilla July 8, 2011 at 03:44 pm
how can i work from home without it being a scam....please im tired of people lying to me i just want a solid honest truth
Stephanie Nivinskus July 8, 2011 at 04:02 pm
Priscilla, I have been working from home for more than 10 years. You have 3 options: 1) start your own company 2) get hired by an existing company as a remote employee 3) "buy in" to an opportunity with an existing company & be a sales rep for them (although they will call it all kinds of different things...such as consultant, marketing director, etc.) The bottom line is that you are a sales rep for the product/service of your choice. If you choose to start your own company you will have ultimate authority & responsibility. If you choose to work as an employee you will likely have little authority although you will most likely have a steady paycheck. If you buy in to a company as a sales rep, you will basically be buying a "business in a box." The company will create/source the product/service so that you have something to sell. You will be responsible for selling it. Your success or failure depends completely on your level of commitment. Owning your own business is challenging. If you are self-motivated & willing to initiate conversations with people about what you have to offer & how you can help them solve a problem, & if you're tenacious & willing to hear the word "no" (possibly many times) without getting down, this might be a great option for you. I own my own biz now & also rep two "buy-in" companies now. I love it & I make good $, but that's because I do all of the above. I shoot straight. It's work. If you want to talk, email me: stephanie@impressionsoncall.com

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